Mistress Daveena Noir
Pro Dominatrix available in
Los Angeles / Orange County, CA
Height: 5'7" Eyes: Blue
Weight: 135 Hair: Brunette (most of the time)
Measurements: 38D-28-38 Background: Spanish, East Indian, Scottish-English
Shoe Size: 6 1/2 - 7 Years of Experience as a Dominant: 8 +
HOW I BECAME A DOMINATRIX...
Being a dominant, with all that it entails, comes very naturally to me.
I was raised in a household where my mother, a beautiful, arrogent Spanish lady, was the Matriarch. She was head of the house and a strict disciplinarian. So I've been conditioned from the very beginning to know that the female dominates. While the male is the bread winner, she's the one who runs the house, who makes all the important decisions and enforces the rules!
As I entered young adulthood, as with most young adults, it was all about the social scene, which, for me, highlighted sex and having fun. Like most attractive young women in Hollywood, I had a great time of it, using the fact that I was pretty to control men & get whatever I wanted. At first it was fun to make men jump through hoops, just to please me, but soon it just became an everyday part of my life. I needed something more.
I began to develop more as an individual, away from the social scene, discovering a more hedonistic nature within myself. As I honed my skills as a hedonist, having a good time ALL the time, dedicated to enjoying life & it's excesses, I met & eventually married a rock star. Through him, I met alot of different types of people and learned of different sorts of lifestyles. There was one male friend of his - another musician, who had a particular influence on my becomming a domme. He was into the BDSM lifestyle, as a dominant. I became very good friends with him and became familiar with what it meant to be a male dominant. I enjoyed hearing about and witnessing what he did with the submissive girls who seemed like they'd do ANYTHING to please him. I liked that it was different from the norm and was impressed by the extreme sense of commitment on the subs' part! For example, following his orders to do so, one girl pierced a rusty safety pin through their clit and then quite happily went around the room, skirt lifted, to show everyone.
At that time, I was working as a receiptionist in a chiropractor's office. One afternoon the chiropractor approached me, completely out of the blue, and asked if I might like to use his office after hours, to do domination sessions! I suspected he had a camera set up to watch from his home or some such thing. Even so, it seemed like a fair trade, so I said 'yes'. My male dom friend recommended some quick reading material for me to study and get ideas for what to do in my first session. I placed an ad in the LA Xpress and from that, took my first client.
The first session was a success - Even though I was in a completely unorthadox, probably illegal situation, I decided to have a good time with it when he showed up. I made use of some of the Dr.'s equipment, tools, etc., & kept an open dialogue with the sub; punishing, humiliating, experimenting as well as checking to make sure he was ok and to see where his limits were. I found I enjoyed my role as the dominant & the domme/sub connection that was formed between us. I knew right away that this was something I comfortable with and wanted to continue!
From that point, I became fully immersed, taking more sessions as well as stydying online and reading books on the subject of BDSM & Femdom.
I soon had my own dungeon in Studio City, which I maintained for 4 or 5 years until I moved to Orange County in 2005.
I still live in Orange County but haven't, as yet, found a suitable space to turn into a dungeon. Until I find one, I will continue to do outcall sessions or to use various professional dungns in the L.A. area.
FAQ
Q: ARE YOU EXPERIENCED IN THE SUBMISSIVE ROLE? WERE YOU A SUB FIRST BEFORE YOU BECAME A DOMINANT?
A: I'm not going to reveal EVERYTHING about my life, but suffice it to say that before starting out as a dominant, over 8 years ago, I have had experience - quality experience - as a submissive to an experienced, knowledgeable experienced male master.
Q: WHY IS THAT IMPORTANT?
A:Although some feel that prior experience as a sub is necessary to be a good top/dominant, there are also those who feel that the sub's role is to submit to the dominant - period, so why would it be important how good/not good the dominant is? I'm not convinced that sub experience is necessary for every person, if they want to be a 'good' dominant. (With the right person I'm an amazing sex partner, but I've never been a man.) The reason has alot to do with my keen sense of empathy! I don't know whether my experience in the submissive role makes me a better dominant or not - or to what degree. By now, after 8 plus years' experience as a dominant, it's probably not even relevant anymore. I feel I'm a 'good' dominant when I get the desired reactions from my submissive.
Q: YOU HAVE A NICE VOICE ON THE PHONE - WHY DON'T YOU SPEAK LIKE A DOMME WHEN I CALL FOR MY APPOINTMENT?
A: When you call you'll find that I speak in a polite, clear, concise, buliness-like mannor. That's because I'm not dominating you - I'm answering questions or making your appointment. Until we have our session, it's not my job to dominate you. Once in session, I am the dominant and you , the sub. My dominant role will reflect in my voice and my mannor of speech.
Q: DO YOU ALLOW BODY WORSHIP / ASS WORSHIP?
A: You mean can you suck my ass or eat my pussy? No.
You may worship my feet, you can worship my big rubber strap-on dick, but that's as personal I get with you.
Q: WHAT'S YOUR STYLE OF DOMINATION - WHAT CAN I EXPECT IN A SESSION?
A: I create a basic plan for your session according to the answers you give, on the slave application. How you rate each item gives me insight as to what excites you most and least. I will use this information to tease you, deny you, reward you and ultimately train you to be an obedient slave. Also, when we are in session together, I feed off of your reactions - they can inspire me as to what I will do next - so each session is a unique experience. I don't have a set format to follow - I prefer a more personal/personalized experience.
Q: I'M INTERESTED IN HAVING A SESSION WITH YOU. WHAT DO I DO?
A: 1. Go to the SLAVE APPLICATION page, follow the instructions to foll out the form and email it to femnoir_yahoo.com
2. Call me at 310-702-5634 to let me know you've sent the application.
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